How many kids is too many when dating someone?

I saw this post on facebook and I had to vent on my blog, bc some people dont know how I feel about children...It might be bc I dont have kids and I am at my forever selfish stage . I just dont want to be anyone stepmom or share my time with a child... then I would be all in my feelings if they spent more time with me then with their kids..I would think they are triflin. So either way I wouldnt be happy. And if u have one or more thats money that you we could we spending on doing things together but u cant bc u gotta pay child support, take ur kids to the movies, park, vacation,etc... Plus I would have to deal with other things that would pop up... But a good thing would be if they do have a kid, they may not want me to have one... Naw I bring it back to my statement.no kids at all... I really dont like kids, and I met a guy that had all the qualities in a man that I want they had a child that would be my deal breaker... I HATE children... I really dont think childbirth is beautiful it looks painful and the mother is depressed and uncomtable for almost a year... Your body and hormones are crazy and ur hospital bill is outrageous! I think I would go into a utter depression if I heard the words: Your pregant" Y'all probably think I am crazy. I am just being real and saying how I feel. I am not trying to offend anyone. I just really dont like kids... And I dont like being around them.. So a man with kids would not work for me.an is already a package deal. I dont want to build a future with someone that I would have to stare at their past everyday. I just feel like I if I managed to not have children why should I settle and be with someone that doesnt have what I want. I am done. Lord pray for me. Now I am itching and stuff thinking about this!