The Secret To Getting Everything You Want & Desire

By Faith Haller

Have you ever asked yourself “Why do some people seem to get everything they want, while you struggle just to make ends meet?” Well I have in the past and it is quite stressful! One problem was I was focused on why I didn’t have, and what others have, but never once did I think about how they may have gotten the things they have. I was focused on the wrong thing! Which is called negative energy. When we put out negative energy, we attract negative energy like magnets! You know that saying ” What ye sow so shall ye reap”??? Yup that’s it! Because I spent time hating on others and what they had and why they had it, I was getting NOTHING! Actually I was fueling their blessings! It wasn’t until I had a change of heart and a new way of thinking I figured it out.

The answer is simple to that question I asked. You were never taught how to get what you want and you were never given the right information. Well I’m here to give you the right information! We all learned the essential things such as reading, writing, walking and talking, but when it came to the important tools of life we were sort of left hanging! RIGHT???
A thing that I learned successful people, those that enjoy the quality of life and seem to attract the things they want are definitely different from those who are unsuccessful, unhappy, and bitter. They think differently and because they think differently they act differently and because they act differently they have a different technique from those who are unsuccessful.
I’m here to tell you ” Success is neither magical nor mysterious. Success is the natural consequence of consistently applying basic fundamentals.” ~Jim Rohn~
So you may ask what are the basic fundamentals of success? Well I’m just going to give you 5.

1.Take 100% responsibility for your life: You must be real or like my brother would say “100″ with yourself! Only you are responsible for how you want your life to be. You can blame NO ONE for the direction your life goes in! You control how you react to key events in your life. Are you ignoring feedback?, Blaming others for your mistakes?. It’s time to break away from these negative patterns and correct the way you respond to ensure you get the results you want. Because blaming or pointing fingers will land you in the same position you are in. To get what you never had you must do what you never done. And the only way to get what you want is to totally rewire your brain!
2. Believing: If you don’t believe in yourself no one else will! So my question to you, do you believe you can achieve all the goals you set for yourself? Do you believe that you have what it takes to succeed in everything you desire in life? If you don’t then either you are not doing what you should be doing or you are not taking responsibility for your own life. We all need to believe in something. When you believe in something it becomes that goal or that light at the end of the tunnel. Once you have reached that light you have reached your goal! You have to have “Passion” & “Ambition”. Many have passion but lack ambition! What ambition does it keeps you focused and going and believing.
3. Taking Action: We can believe all we want but if action don’t follow ain’t nothing going to get done. POINT BLANK! Faith without WORKS is DEAD ____/\_________. Literally! Successful people are HIGH on action! This is why they are successful. They taking action to get what they believed in. One thing, you can not and I repeat you CAN NOT be scared. Taking action is going to require you to step out of your comfort zone. It’s going to require you to go out and do some things that you never done before. And that goes right back to what I said in #1 “To get what you never had you must do what you never done. STEPPING OUT ON FAITH! By stepping out on faith, you are doing WHAT??? TAKING ACTION!!!
4. Confronting your fears: Here we go, I just said it. YOU CAN NOT BE SCARED if YOU want to be successful! Fear is what holds us back! Fear is what tells you stop, turn around, what you doing is stupid, you not going to be successful. Trust me I know! I was the definition of fear. You may say but Faith how is that when your name is Faith??? LOL I have no clue. But I think God gave me this name for a reason because He knew I would have to live up to it. (Thank you Mom and Dad for naming me Faith) Ok back on subject, FEAR is a natural emotion. We all experience some level of fear in our life time. But it’s up to us how we channel our fear. It’s easy to curl back into our shell but it takes a LION to confront those fears! “Tell fear I said to kick concrete”
5.Asking for Feedback and Using it Constructively: I stress this all the time but when we are just starting off it is important to find someone that inspires us and doing something that we love that we can go to for advice and constructive criticism. It’s good to believe in ourselves and do things on our own but without guidance from one whose been there and know the ropes we will be one lost puppy. I recommend that you find a mentor for every part of your life. I have over 5 mentors and each feeds to my soul. Having mentors and someone that can give you constructive criticism if you apply it can help you learn and grow just as fast. By doing this, it will unlock your true potential and give you a whole new perspective on life.
With these 5 tips I have given you, and once you have mastered these fundamental you will have no problem with being successful and receiving all that you truly deserve if applied right. It takes 30 days to change a habit. SO apply these fundamentals consistently for 30 days and you will see results! I guarantee you!